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About the Author - p. 1
About the Author's Books - p. 1
About the Author - p. 1
Take a few minutes to get to know a bit about T.J., and the journey that has been her life. The bio section may stir some questions for you, so T.J. invites you to hold onto them until you reach the end of the page, and drop her a line. You can also contact T.J. directly at tjchristoff1965@gmail.com
She would love to connect with you!
A Sneak Peek - p. 1
About the Author's Books - p. 1
About the Author - p. 1
Here T.J. gives you a sneak peek into one of her upcoming books that she is working on. It may be a work of fiction, a new book of poetry, a book of daily inspirational reminders similar to Today I'm Reminded: 366 Days to Mindfulness and Awakening, or something that (at this point) has yet to be imagined. At any rate, T.J. has decided to share pieces of her work as it moves from a gift of inspiration to one of reality. She would love your feedback and invites you to send her a message either through the chat box at the lower right of the screen, or to correspond directly at tjchristoff1965@gmail.com
About the Author's Books - p. 1
About the Author's Books - p. 1
Featured ~ New Creation(s) - p 1
T.J. began writing poetry at the age of sixteen. Since then, she has published five poetry books (My Patchwork Heart 4 Volume Collection, as well as the Complete Collection), one inspirational book (Today I'm Reminded: 366 Days to Mindfulness and Awakening), and her autobiography (Suicide: One Person's Journey to Making the Choice). She currently has one other book she is working on (The Brat Pact: The Promises We Meant to Keep), and another book or two that she says she keeps getting bits of inspirational thoughts for, but that have not been fully presented to her by her higher self as of yet.
Featured ~ New Creation(s) - p 1
New and Unpublished Poetry - p. 1
Featured ~ New Creation(s) - p 1
T.J. has created this "Featured" section to showcase her newest creations one at a time, as they come to her. These new creations may be poems, quotes, or words to live by. In either case, she will highlight them individually in this section, while at the same time including them in whatever section they would otherwise belong to. The featured new creation will remain in this section and will only be removed whenever another new creation has come along to replace it. This will allow T.J.'s readers an easier method for determining what is new from that which might have been on her site for awhile.
New and Unpublished Poetry - p. 1
New and Unpublished Poetry - p. 1
New and Unpublished Poetry - p. 1
T.J. continues to write new poems as she is inspired to do so, and she has decided to share those unpublished poems with all of you. Additionally, on occasion she will come across a poem that she has written in the past that has not been published, or that may hold special meaning for her. In those cases, T.J. may choose to share those poems with you as well. Sometimes T.J. will receive inspired "Words to Live By" as well as new poems. When this happens, she may include the words to live by in this section as well. She hopes you enjoy the advanced look into these poems and words to live by as they appear, and she invites you to contact her with your feedback.
Remembering You...p. 2
New and Unpublished Poetry - p. 1
New and Unpublished Poetry - p. 1
T. J. has written a number of poems in honor of loved ones passed. Regardless of whether they existed in human or animal form, T.J. believes in honoring these souls just the same. She shares those poems with you in this section as a way to continue to keep their spirits alive. She asks that you take a moment to share in the honoring of their sentient existance by reading a poem or two while you are here, while taking time to remember those loved ones that may have passed from your life as well, if you so choose.
About Spirituality - p.3
Video - Dear Younger Me (p. 4)
Video - Dear Younger Me (p. 4)
Spirituality is a very big part of T.J.'s life. In fact, she will tell you that it is at the core of who she is. As such, T.J. has chosen to share various aspects of her spirituality with her readers as well. T.J. has recognized that for her, had she not had the spiritual connection that she does, her story would have no doubt turned out with a much more grim ending. She hopes you will find her writings regarding spirituality of interest and of benefit to you, however, she also understands that not everyone has an interest in such things, and invites you to move past that section if you so choose.
Video - Dear Younger Me (p. 4)
Video - Dear Younger Me (p. 4)
Video - Dear Younger Me (p. 4)
T.J. was musing recently over how fast time still manages to fly despite our being encumbered by these meat suits we wear. While reflecting, she decided to share this video with you, which gives you a brief glimpse into the life of T.J. ~ Spiritualist, Author, and spirit in varying human form.
Video - I'm Gonna Fly - p. 4
Video - Dear Younger Me (p. 4)
Revisiting the Past in Poetry - p. 5
T.J. believes that music is food for the soul. She is often moved emotionally and inspired deeply by music and song lyrics. T.J. believes that music has a direct influence on a persons aura, and the vibrational energy it emits, as well as one's over all mood.
Revisiting the Past in Poetry - p. 5
Revisiting the Past in Poetry - p. 5
Revisiting the Past in Poetry - p. 5
T.J. shares select poems from her complete collection of poetry she has written and collected over the span of decades. Read about the experiences which have molded T.J.into the person she is today and discover how some of her own life experiences may possibly even resonate with some of your own!
Sneak Peek - p. 6
Revisiting the Past in Poetry - p. 5
...Blog Posts p. 7
T.J. began writing The Brat Pact a few years ago, but had to put the project on hold when she decided to go back to school to earn her Master's Degree. Not one to leave a project undone, T.J. is determined to finish what she has started. Unfortunately, she does not have and end date in sight at the moment.
...Blog Posts p. 7
Revisiting the Past in Poetry - p. 5
...Blog Posts p. 7
T.J. has a blog section where she will stop by on occasion to talk about whatever has captured her innermost musings. This usually occurs when she finds herself in a place of reflection, and she wishes to share with her readers some of the lessons she has learned along her life's journey.
Book Reviews - p. 8
Book Reviews - p. 8
Book Reviews - p. 8
T.J. had her first thoughts of suicide when she was sixteen years old. She would battle those thoughts for much of her life. With each failed intended attempt, it was "Back to the drawing board!" she went. And each time she left the drawing board, her ideations and intentions grew closer and closer to a successful completion of a suicide attempt.
T.J. Is currently working on updating the cover of her autobiography. While she says she has a visual of what she would like it to look like in her mind, she still has to find someone with the artistic abilities to bring it to life. Once she finds that person, Suicide: One Person's Journey to Making the Choice, will have a new look!
Book Reviews - p. 8
Book Reviews - p. 8
Book Reviews - p. 8
T.J. began writing poetry at the age of sixteen years. She will tell you that she is a terrible writer, and that she is always able to tell when a poem has been truly inspired, compared to when she has attempted to do the writing herself. She says that for the longest time she didn't understand why she was chosen to be the conduit for some greater being to pass messages through, but that she is grateful every time she receives a poem that truly gives her pause after it has been penned.
Book Reviews - p. 8
Book Reviews - p. 8
Book Reviews - p. 8
T.J. continues to write poetry as the inspiration moves her. This is the second of her four volume collection.
Book Reviews - p. 8
Book Reviews - p. 8
Book Reviews - p. 8
As the time passes and T.J. moves through her life's journey, her experiences are reflected in the poems that she writes.
Book Reviews - p. 8
Book Reviews - p. 8
Book Reviews - p. 8
The journey progresses in volume four as T.J. continues to make her way through her life experiences, all the while learning and growing.
Book Reviews - p. 8
Book Reviews - p. 8
Book Reviews - p. 8
T.J. decided to compile her four volume poetry collection into one large book for those of her readers that prefer larger print and fewer books (Although she laughs as she says that she can't imagine anyone wanting fewer books! :) In this Complete Collection, T.J. has added a number of poems that had not been previously published in the individual volumes.
Book Reviews - p. 8
Contact T.J. - p. 8
Book Reviews - p. 8
Today I'm Reminded: 366 Days to Mindfulness and Awakening is a fun book that T.J. says should be on a coffee table in every home. It reminds the reader to take a moment to be truly present at least once every day. This is done with simple little thoughts, such as, "Today I'm Reminded: When you make it a point to keep doing what makes you happy, you never need a bucket list!", and "Today I'm Reminded: It's none of my business what anyone else thinks of me." T.J. had the foresight to include an extra day to account for leap year!
Book Reviews - p. 8
Contact T.J. - p. 8
Book Reviews - p. 8
If you want to make God laugh, tell Him/Her your plans! T.J. never had any intention to make 366 Days to Mindfulness and Awakening a series. However, ever since writing that book, she has been receiving inspiration for a second volume, which resulted in ~ I Am ~ Reconnecting to Your Higher Self: 366 Days to Mindfulness and Awakening. Ever since publishing Today I'm Reminded in Janruary of 2019 on Amazom.com, the book has received nothing less that 5 stars on any of it's reviews! T.J. is hopeful that ~ I Am ~ Reconnecting to Your Higher Self, will do just as well. T.J. invites you to check out this new addition and welcomes your feedback in the chat box on the lower right of your screen or you may contact her at tjchristoff1965@gmail.com.
Contact T.J. - p. 8
Contact T.J. - p. 8
Construction Zone - p. 8
T.J. has included a contact form so you can reach out to her with any questions or comments you might have. Please understand that T.J. is all about kindness and respect, and therefore, she will only respond to those messages that refrain from negativity or hostility. T.J. believes that we get back what we put out into the Universe, and therefore, she chooses to refrain from engaging in interactions that do not strive to promote a positive interaction. You may contact T.J. via email at: tjchristoff1965@gmail.com
Construction Zone - p. 8
Construction Zone - p. 8
Construction Zone - p. 8
You may notice that there are times when it seems that nothing new is appearing on T.J.'s website. Don’t let this lull fool you. It is during this time that T.J.'s inspiration is "UNDER CONSTRUCTION." Inspiration is something that can't be rushed, and T.J. appreciates your patience and understanding during these slower times.
Website Page Numbers
Construction Zone - p. 8
Website Page Numbers
T.J. has added page numbers at the top left of each page of the website to help you navigate the site more efficiently.
Chat
Construction Zone - p. 8
Website Page Numbers
T.J. has added a chat button in the lower right hand corner of the screen. By using this chat feature, you can quickly send a message to T.J., and she will respond as quickly as possible. You can also contact T.J. via email at
Sneak Peek!
Poetry Reading from T.J.
T.J. has decided to start including a link with some of her poems that, once clicked on, will open a YouTube page where you will be able to hear the author reading the poem to you. Look for the link at the beginning of the poem the link is associated with. T.J. hopes this will help bring a bit more life and feeling to some of the poems shared with you here. Check the "Featured ~ New Creation(s)" further down below on this page for a sample!
Sneak Peek!
New (and old) Video's Now Located on Page 4!
T.J. enjoys sharing videos. If interested, you can now find them located on page 4!
Check out the latest video titled "What's Up?" by 4 Non Blones, that T.J. referenced in her autobiography, Suicide: One Person's Journey to Making the Choice.
Sneak Peek!
Revisiting the Past in Rhyme - Located on Page 5!
T.J. began writing poetry at the age of sixteen years. The poems within her four-volume series titled, My Patchwork Heart: A Collection of Original Poetry were written and collected over a period of...well...a very long time :) T.J. has decided to start sharing some of those poems with you here as a tribute to her life's journey. She invites you to explore some of what got her to where she is today. Be sure to check back often for new (old) additions.
Books by T. J. Christoff...
Suicide: One Person's Journey to Making the Choice
Suicide: One Person's Journey to Making the Choice
Suicide: One Person's Journey to Making the Choice
Hindsight is 20/20. I doubt there are many people who if given a chance, wouldn’t like the opportunity to go back in time and change some, if not all of their past. Be it the choices they made as an individual or the things that affected them in some negative or hurtful way. It is the events of our past combined with our individual innate sensitivities that each of us possess, however, that contributes to the making of the person each of us will ultimately become. Each generation holds within it certain truths. The way children were raised 50 or 60 years ago, could not be scarcely imagined by the children of today. The discipline imposed by parents onto their children of only 30 or 40 years ago, while acceptable then would have been judged as abuse by today’s standards. It is only through years of living that one is able to mentally go back in time to evaluate the affects life as a child has had on them. It is also through years of living, that we are able to truly appreciate and put to use those lessons that were taught to us so many years ago. Through time, the recollection of certain incidents may become clouded. Some facts or details recalled differently from one person to the next. That doesn’t make an event any less real or accurate within the individual mind of the person that recalls it, or any less important. While there may be emotional pains associated with an individual’s upbringing, it is imperative that we try to look past the pain to the lesson. In every situation we encounter throughout the course of our lives, from childhood through adulthood, we have an opportunity to learn something. The only things preventing us from learning these lessons are our own fear, anger, pride and sheer unwillingness. There will always be pain, hurt and loss as long as there is life. There are no cookie-cutter designs for the perfect parent or for the perfect child. We use what we learn and experience as children, to hopefully someday become stronger adults and eventually better parents for our own children. As we grow into adults, we are faced with other issues that bring about the feeling of pain, hurt and loss. Each incident will affect us in a way that may or may not be understood by others in society, but once again, that perception from one person to the next is no less real or important. Life is a journey. A race filled with obstacles and lessons, starting from conception and continuing throughout life until finally reaching its end in death. Enjoy your journey…for you know not when it shall end!
https://www.amazon.com/Suicide-Persons-Journey-Making-Choice/dp/1793133492
My Patchwork Heart Vol. 1
Suicide: One Person's Journey to Making the Choice
Suicide: One Person's Journey to Making the Choice
My Patchwork Heart is just that! It is a heart that has known love, anger, pain, loss, hope, faith and survival. It is a heart that has known many sleepless nights. The result of attempts at picking up its broken pieces, while working desperately to mend itself back together again…all the while, learning and growing.
My Patchwork Heart Vol. 2
Suicide: One Person's Journey to Making the Choice
My Patchwork Heart Vol. 2
The poems that make up this collection of original poetry have been written and collected for more than thirty years by the author. As much as possible, they are displayed throughout the pages in the same order in which they were written; A word-map, of sorts, of the author’s journey throughout life, and no doubt a reflection of some of life’s obstacles that many readers of My Patchwork Heart can deeply relate to.
My Patchwork Heart Vol. 3
My Patchwork Heart: Complete Collection
My Patchwork Heart Vol. 2
Poems can tell stories through short, succinct verses, while at the same time conveying volumes through relatable, heartfelt imagery. Many of T.J.'s poems are born from her lived experiences. While others are whispered to her soul at twilight, only to be penned at the light of dawn.
My Patchwork Heart Vol. 4
My Patchwork Heart: Complete Collection
My Patchwork Heart: Complete Collection
The journey continues in Volume 4. As the author evolves, the poems reflect her journey through life. The series of all 4 volumes are also available in one complete collection (see "My Patchwork Heart: Complete Collection 1983 - 2020", at the beginning of this page) which includes a number of additional poems that were previously unpublished.
My Patchwork Heart: Complete Collection
My Patchwork Heart: Complete Collection
My Patchwork Heart: Complete Collection
The complete four volume collection of poems compiled over almost 40 years of the autohor's life have been gathered together in one book. There are even some extra poems that have never been published before included in this collection of poems waiting to be shared with you!
Today I'm Reminded: 366 Days to Mindfulness and Awakening
~ I Am ~ Reconnecting to Your Higher Self: 366 Days to Mindfulness and Awakening
~ I Am ~ Reconnecting to Your Higher Self: 366 Days to Mindfulness and Awakening
Every day we have the opportunity to experience all of the gifts that make up, life! Too often, however, so much of life often slips right past us without our noticing it. Today I'm Reminded: 366 Days to Mindfulness and Awakening, is a book that is designed to encourage mindfulness every single day, while at the same time, assisting the reader in developing a more awakened sense of self and being.
https://www.amazon.com/Today-Im-Reminded-Mindfulness-Awakening-ebook/dp/B07N388R8H
~ I Am ~ Reconnecting to Your Higher Self: 366 Days to Mindfulness and Awakening
~ I Am ~ Reconnecting to Your Higher Self: 366 Days to Mindfulness and Awakening
~ I Am ~ Reconnecting to Your Higher Self: 366 Days to Mindfulness and Awakening
"~ I Am ~" was designed to help the reader become more mindful over the course of 366 days. Each day starts with the powerful words "I AM", and is followed by one positive word to be meditated on throughout the day. At the bottom of each page is a definition that expresses the meaning that inspired the word.
https://www.amazon.com/Reconnecting-Your-Higher-Self-Mindfulness-ebook/dp/B0CW1JJ5SH
T.J. Christoff ~ Aura Update ~ 31 August 2024
~ NOTICE~
...Enjoy your journey, for you know not when it shall end!
Most of the information concerning spirituality (including updated author aura and chakra information) has been relocated to page 3.
A Sneak Peek...
New Blog Post!
10/16/2024
Well, today I received the final letter from the last of three companies involved in the nightmare that was originally meant to be a simple home improvement project consisting of buying new windows for my home.
(Continue reading on page 7.)
A Sneak Peek...
New Blog Post!
10/13/2024
What’s your worth? Do you know? At what point do you say, “Enough is enough.”? At what point do you determine that the value of who you are, is worth more to you than the cost to your emotional well-being when you allow others to take advantage of the gentleness of your heart, as they walk away time and again without a word, only to assume they’ll be able to come back whenever they choose?
(Continue reading on page 7.)
A Sneak Peek...
Now Live on Amazon.Com! (In Paperback and ebook)
T.J. has just published volume 1 of her new series of original poetry titled Author of My Soul. T.J. has been sharing these poems with you here on her website as they have been created, and she will continue to share them with you here for the foreseeable future. (Currently, you can find these poems located on page 9.) However, if you would like to own your own copy of Author of My Soul, or any of the other works by T.J., you can find them on Amazon.com. T.J. would appreciate your feedback and she may be contacted through the chat in the lower right-hand corner of your screen, or you may contact her directly at tjchristoff1965@gmail.com.
T.J. has already written her first poem for volume 2 of Author of My Soul, titled "You are...". Check it out here on page 1 in the section titled Featured - New Creation(s), down below. As always, T.J. thanks you for stopping by and she hopes you find something to read that touches your soul today!
A Sneak Peek...
Now Live on Amazon.Com! (In Paperback)
Because T.J. understands that not everyone enjoys reading their books in an electronic format, she also provides her books publishable in the traditional, paperback fashion as well. Her newest book, ~ I Am ~ Reconnecting to Your Higher Self: 366 Days to Mindfulness and Awakening has just been released in digital format and is currently available in paperback on Amazom.com. You can click on the link below (electronic version) to be redirected to Amazon, where the book may be accessed through Kindle Unlimited or is available for purchase as well. T.J. would appreciate your feedback and may be contacted through the chat in the lower righthand corner or your screen, or you may contact her directly at tjchristoff1965@gmail.com.
https://www.amazon.com/Reconnecting-Your-Higher-Self-Mindfulness/dp/B0CY7YPDQ6/ref =tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.oC6z9NSFJLCpGvP ciByp ZIt0Ws6b R3yUsafR0tLIi2a_FeFF5vo-xuGlrMC823SQ0DFODkJ5fBpgFmrxxomPwhs5ISTwdlnxhI i966D_0kgo0cL_JPsL597joJYni9GO.nbNIObjvLlQUcSziSRcCF3jTmTWkdLDbRMR214ParfU&qid=1711160126&sr=1-1
A Sneak Peek...
NOW LIVE on AMAZON.COM!
Ever since the release of Today I'm Reminded: 366 Days to Mindfulness and Awakening,
T. J. has been receiving inspiration for a follow-up volume. Originally, she had no intention of making the book a mulit-volume series, however, she will be the first to say, "If you want to make God laugh, tell Him your plans!" So, after receiving ongoing inspiration for a second book of a straight-forward, inspirational nature, T.J. has been working diligently on volume 2 titled, ~ I Am ~ Reconnecting to Your Higher Self: 366 Days to Mindfulness and Awakening.
The book follows the same idea as Today I'm Reminded. However, for each day in this volume, the reader will be given the powerful prompt "I AM" followed by one positive word to meditate on and repeat to themself as they go throughout the business of their day. At the bottom of each page is at least one definition that is in line with what had come to T.J. when she became inspired to add that particular word within the pages of the book. T.J. says that while it's important to "try on" each of the words, she realizes that some of them may not be a good fit for some readers at this point on their journey, and that is just fine. In those cases, she encourages the reader to go back to a previous days word and spend more time embracing it instead.
T.J. notes that words and thoughts, whether spoken or not are forms of energy. The Universal Law of Attraction tells us that what we put out into the universe will come back to us. That is to say, that our thoughts create our reality. When combining the powerful words "I AM" with other positive words, we begin the immediate process of transforming our lives in positive ways. That is what this book is all about. No matter how positive you are already, T.J. hopes that you will enjoy the process of transforming and bringing more positivity into your life, one word and one thought at a time.
Below, T.J. has included a brief sample of what you will see in ~ I Am ~ Reconnecting to Your Highr Self: 366 Days to Mindfulness and Awakening (Vol. 2) [ebook]. She would love your feedback and looks forward to your reviews on Amazon.com once the book is released! You can also contact her directly at tjchristoff1965@gmail.com
Day 1
~ I Am ~
Transparent!
2 a: free from pretense or deceit
c: readily understood
Day 2
~ I Am ~
Worthy!
1 a: having worth or value
Day 3
~ I Am ~
Intelligent!
1 a: having or indicating a high or satisfactory degree of intelligence and mental capacity
2 b: revealing or reflecting good judgement or sound thought
Day 4
~ I Am ~
Attractive!
1 a: arousing interest or pleasure
Day 5
~ I Am ~
Determined!
1 a: having reached a decision : firmly resolved
https://www.amazon.com/Reconnecting-Your-Higher-Self-Mindfulness-ebook/dp/B0CW1JJ5SH
Featured ~ New Creation(s)
I've Fallen Completely in Love...
I think I'm just going to say it
Let the chips fall where they may
I think I'm just going to say the words
I'm going to put them out there today
I think I'm just going to express my feelings
No more holding them deep inside
I think I'm going to let them out
No longer lock them in my heart to reside
I think I'm going to say the words
That I've waited so long to say
I think I'm tired of holding them in
Yes, I think today is the day
I think you deserve to know the truth
You deserve to know what I feel
I think it's important you finally know
I want to always keep what's between us, real
I think you may already have guessed this
But guessing you should not have to do
When it comes to understanding the feelings
Another soul possesses for you
I think you may already feel it in your heart
It's okay if you don't feel the same for me too
But I think it's time you should know
I've fallen completely in love, with the soul that is you
By: T. J. Christoff ©
For: You
10/19/2024
0929hrs.
Image:
https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/love-quotes-for-her
You are...
You are calculating
I have every reason to believe
You always know what you're saying
Though without intent to deceive
You are intelligent
Like a player of chess
You seem to plan your next move
Some three or four moves ahead
You are decisive
I see it in your eyes
In your rare moments of stammer
I sense you feel caught by surprise
You are mysterious
Never failing to intrigue
Weaving together your thoughts
There's so much you're able to conceive
You are ravishing
Outside and in
Whenever I look at you
There's a quieting of my mind's din
You are inviting
A warm calmness you possess
Just thinking of you
Enables my soul to rest
By: T. J. Christoff ©
For: You
10/6/2024
2340hrs.
Image:
https://www.carolynanderson.com/blog/151118/the-art-and-science-of-sunsets
Your Soul Whispered to Mine...
Come
Lay your head, light on my breast
Let me comfort you while you rest
Here
Let me hold you close
Allow me to ease your stress
There
Feel my energy flow from me
Encircling you and helping you feel renewed
Breathe
Exhaling anxiety and sorrow
Inhaling rejuvenation and strength
Sense
All that is good and pure
Knowing you are safe and secure
Release
Any doubt that you carry
Any fear that lay buried
Embrace
Me, and all the possibilities
Awaiting discoveries
Feel
The energy building between us
It's here to remind us
This
This is what I heard your soul whisper
With love, affection, and tenderness, to mine
By: T. J. Christoff ©
10/5/2024
1012hrs.
Image:
https://thebadpod.com/2024/07/23/twin-flame-quotes/
You've Been Noticed...
I'm curious about their origin
The words penned here
Feelings and emotions
Moments before were mere timeless energy
All I need do
Is to think of you
And the words appear
Mysteriously
Like a tidal wave of thoughts
Or a tsunami of feelings
Seemingly competing, yet needing each other
They long to find their place
It is you
It is you they recognize
A familiar look in your eyes
The natural sultriness in your voice they hear
How many times
Will they rearrange
To send their message to you
The meaning they've determined you ought know
One by one as they fall into line
With or without rhyme
They want you to know
You've been noticed
By: T.J. Christoff ©
9/29//2024
1922hrs.
Image:
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